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Lanterns: Can You Raise a Child to Feel No Fear?

 

Lanterns - Junior

In Lanterns, John “Junior” (Aaron Pierre) commands attention the moment he walks on screen. But as his backstory unfolds, we quickly learn that his restraint and extraordinary discipline weren't just born—they were engineered.

Following his father’s (J. Alphonse Nicholson) failure, Junior’s mother became determined to produce a different outcome. Her approach to preparing her son for greatness goes far beyond ordinary parenting, dipping into something much darker and more controlling.

A Mother Who Wants to Build the Perfect Son

John's mother (Jasmine Cephas Jones) has a very specific idea of what her son needs to become to be the next Green Lantern, and she seems willing to push him towards that goal despite everything. 

She isn't simply teaching him skills; she's trying to shape his responses, his limits, and even his relationship with fear.

Psychologically, this matters. A parent who helps a child overcome a challenge is giving that child an opportunity to develop. A parent who decides what the child must become, regardless of his own needs, does something very different.

This attitude risks teaching a child that their value depends on how well they fulfill someone else's expectations.

And I wonder whether this helps explain the contradiction we see in Junior. He can appear capable of extraordinary things, yet his mother's presence seems to change him. Pay attention to how he speaks to her and how he responds to her authority. Does he seem as confident with her as he does elsewhere?

What Happens When You Teach a Child Not to Fear?

This raises a great question: can you deliberately teach fearlessness?

Fear isn't merely an obstacle to courage. It's also a warning system that helps us recognize danger and reconsider our decisions. Learning to manage fear can make someone more capable. Learning to ignore it is a different matter.

Someone who can control their fear has more freedom to decide how to act. Someone trained to suppress their instincts may have fewer opportunities to recognize when they should refuse.

The Boy Behind the Training

Despite all his mother's efforts, however, Junior didn't become a merely passive product of her will.

In this context, his decision to shoot the apple off his mother's head rather than his father's is a pivotal moment of symbolic resistance. Read as a deliberate challenge, the choice of target is deeply revealing. Because his mother is actively trying to mold and control him, aiming at her isn't just defiance—it’s an assertion of his own agency, a raw attempt to break through her authority and prove he is not merely a tool she can manipulate.

Perhaps he's asserting his independence. Perhaps he's testing the limits of her authority. Or perhaps he's expressing frustration in the only way he feels able to.

This scene complicates his upbringing beyond a simple story of a parent preparing a child for greatness. A child can resist control and still be deeply influenced by the person controlling them. Even rebellion can develop in response to someone else's rules.

Years ago, I read The Gardener and the Carpenter, a parenting book by Alison Gopnik, in which she argues against treating parenting as a process of sculpting a predetermined human being. A gardener creates the fertile soil and conditions for a plant to flourish into whatever it naturally becomes, whereas a carpenter tries to carve raw material into a precise, rigid object. John's mother acts purely as the carpenter—trying to engineer every detail of who her son should be, rather than nurturing who he actually is.

Does Fearlessness Make You Obedient?

We might expect someone without fear to be more independent, more willing to challenge authority. But fearlessness doesn't automatically translate into independent thinking.

Junior could be brave enough to face danger and still struggle to question the people who have trained him. If his mother taught him how to act but didn't encourage him to decide for himself, he might be exceptionally capable yet still dependent on her judgment.

There's no straightforward answer, so I'd rather ask another question: has John's mother prepared him to face the world, or has she prepared him to meet her expectations of who he should be?


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